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Mediation
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Divorce Mediation Torrance, CA
Torrance Divorce Lawyers with More Than 70 Years of Combined Experience
Divorce mediation is a way to help you and your spouse come to an agreement
on the terms of your marriage dissolution while avoiding unnecessary conflict
or litigation. By using mediation, you are also able to maintain greater
control over the outcome, because the only people involved in the decision
making process will be those affected by the results without the control
of any outside party such as an arbitrator or judge.
Working with a competent Torrance divorce lawyer may allow you and your
spouse to save time and money by avoiding the financially and emotionally
wearisome litigation process. This may be the best option for you if you
have certain disagreements regarding your divorce terms but wish to come
to an agreeable mutual resolution. Through the mediation process, you
can communicate effectively with your spouse by taking specific steps
toward a settlement. An impartial third party will serve as a mediator
during this process.
There are a number of benefits to mediation. For example:
The mediation process is usually faster and more straightforward than a
court trial
This option offers you the chance to discuss your differences with your
spouse before making a final decision
You can speak directly with one another rather than through your divorce
attorneys, allowing your attorney to instead play a role in advising you
and ensuring that you understand the applicable laws in place to protect
your interests
You have the opportunity to agree to a trial period in which you can test
the terms of your agreement before your divorce is finalized
You will have several appointments in which to consider the options you
and your spouse have discussed
Mediation is almost always less expensive than litigation
You will be able to avoid the stress of a court trial
The final decision rests with you and your spouse and not with a judge
Mediation Tips
Mediation can be difficult, but the advice below can help make the process easier:
Tackle simple issues first
Be open to compromise
Try to understand your spouse’s point of view
Dealing with the simple issues first helps to build trusts and encourages
compromise. Understanding your spouse’s perspective also helps to
foster compromise. Even if you don’t agree with your spouse, understanding
where they are coming from can help you decipher the heart of their concerns.
From there, you and your mediator can create solutions that address your
concerns, as well as your spouse’s concerns.
Do you Have Questions about Mediation? Call Our South Bay Law Firm Today!
No matter how difficult your marriage dissolution is or how impossible
it may seem to come to agreement on terms such as
child support or
property division, we can help you resolve your divorce out of court via mediation. This
process allows you to save time, money, and the emotional fatigue that
so often accompanies litigation. Our lawyers are understanding, compassionate,
and dedicated to the best interests of our clients. With our team on your
side, you don't have to feel alone: We will be with you every step of the way.
I couldn't have chosen a better law team to represent my family and me. Everyone in the office treats us with love and care, ensuring that I understand everything that is happening. You are a wonderful, loyal person, and you are also an excellent, caring, and highly professional lawyer. Words cannot express how grateful I am for all you have done. I did not want the day to pass without thanking you again for your work today.
Mikki D.
“I thank them for their excellence”
Pat, Colleen, and the team helped me through a very difficult custody issue many years ago, so I called them again when I needed to divorce. I thank them for their excellence, efficiency, and a successful settlement!
Shireen C.
“Colleen was by my side”
Divorce can be very difficult, expensive and stressful. You need someone to talk to that could lead you in the right direction when you’re ready. Colleen was the right person to do that. She and Pat Barberis are the team that made me feel protected when I was the most vulnerable early in the divorce process. They were patient with me and Colleen was by my side in court when I really needed in person representation before the court.
C.D.
“I would strongly recommend Pat”
Pat helped me with my divorce, which was a difficult time for me. She was fantastic, helping me through the whole process. She worked very hard to ensure it was as positive an outcome for me as possible.
When I turned to her for some legal advice just recently, several years after my divorce, I was able to set up a consultation with her that same day. She worked through the situation with me, understanding it and providing me with options that could be pursued, and giving me very solid advice. I would never hesitate to engage her again if the need arose. I would strongly recommend Pat for any family law needs you might have.
Joseph R.
“Pat Barberis is fabulous!”
Pat helped me with my divorce previously, which was a very difficult time for me. She was fantastic, helping me through the whole process. She worked very hard to ensure it was as positive an outcome for me as possible. When I turned to her for some legal advice just recently, several years after my divorce, I was able to set up a consultation with her that same day. She worked through the situation with me, understanding the it and providing me with options that could be pursued, and giving me very solid advice. I would never hesitate to engage her again if the need arose. I would strongly recommend Pat for any family law needs you might have.
Joe
“Thank you so much”
Pat did a phenomenal job throughout my high conflict divorce. She will communicate all your options to you, she will advocate for you and fight for you, and she is so knowledgeable--her amount of expertise will put your mind at ease. She would be so prompt with all communications that if I ever had a question she would even respond to me after hours or on the weekends if needed (which I was super impressed with and it was much appreciated). Her team (which includes Colleen Barberis) and all of the office staff were incredible throughout the divorce and I will be forever grateful to them for getting me to the finish line with this divorce. I walked away with an incredible settlement and had a great outcome because of all their hard work. Thank you so much Pat, Colleen, and office staff!!
Liz L
“I would recommend them to everyone.”
Patricia and Colleen and their helpful office staff were a full service team who helped support me and get me through my family court battles. They were quick to respond and helpful. I would recommend them to everyone.
Sarah T.
“They are wonderful people and are extremely knowledgeable.”
I have had the best representation and experience with the law team of Patricia Barberis. I have had the pleasure of using them twice. They do a great job. Patricia Colleen and everyone in the office is super helpful and very talented in what they do. Their understanding of family law is amazing. Patricia and her team were very kind and patient with me in difficult times and circumstances. The last one was during the Pandemic late last year and they did an A+ job. Patricia’s guidance was super helpful and her paralegal Nancy did a fantastic job too. I highly recommend Patricia Barberis Law Firm for all family law matters. They are wonderful people and are extremely knowledgeable.
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